A few weeks ago, I had the unique opportunity to attend Bully-Proof 2.0, a powerful and well-curated event organized by the phenomenal Debbie Omorozi Diamond. What makes this story more interesting is that I had only met Debbie just a few days or perhaps a week before the program. Little did I know that this brief introduction would lead to such a meaningful and transformative experience. The atmosphere at the event was electric with purpose, care, and real conversations that matter.
When I first heard the term bully-proof, it honestly made me pause. You see, back in secondary school, I wasn’t exactly the quiet student sitting in a corner. I was the one who stood her ground, sometimes a bit too fiercely. Not because I enjoyed confrontation or wanted to be unkind, but because I absolutely hated being bullied. I remember being willing to challenge anyone who tried to cross that line, whether senior, junior, or classmate. Some of my old schoolmates might still remember those moments (please, don’t come for me). Reflecting on it now, I realize how much of that behavior came from a place of pain and self-protection.
Attending this event stirred something deep in me. It wasn’t just another seminar; it made me reflect on who I used to be and who I’ve become. I found myself thinking about the unspoken trauma I may have caused others while trying to protect myself from being hurt. That inner reflection reminded me of the importance of healing, forgiveness, and growth. But I also made a conscious decision not to shrink in shame. I chose instead to show up fully as the person I am today, with a clearer heart and deeper understanding. And for that, I’m truly grateful.
Programs like Bully-Proof 2.0 are not just timely but they are absolutely necessary. They equip children and even adults with tools to manage emotions, communicate better, build confidence, and handle conflict with empathy rather than aggression. These are life skills that many of us were never formally taught growing up. I couldn’t help but think how different many lives, mine included might have been if programs like this had existed in our time.
Every school, in my opinion, should seriously consider partnering with Debbie and her amazing team. Our children face pressures we often overlook, silent battles they don’t always feel safe enough to bring home. Some, sadly, never get the chance to speak at all. Events like these can literally save lives. I’m truly thankful to have been part of something so impactful, and I honestly can’t wait for the next edition.